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Good Read from ScaredMonkeysPosted by: YourTurnToHelp on Dec 21, 2008 Tagged in: scaredmonkeys , lee anthony , George Anthony , Cindy Anthony , Caylee Anthony , Casey Anthony
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I received an email this morning from another Crime Searcher pointing me to an article written over at ScaredMonkeys.com titled Caylee Anthony, She Deserved So much Better fromher Family Eventually She was Saved by her Father at Christmas.
It's a good read so good infact I'm posting about it here in hopes that you'll go over there and read it.
The article starts off:
"A special Christmas wish to Caylee Anthony and all missing children during this Christmas season. In the end the little girl who had no father listed on her birth certificate; it was her Father who cared the most and her Father who brought her home for Christmas."
Ironic and unfortunately true.
The article goes on to address some of the main aspects of this case that have just been too hard to swallow. I know, I know, the whole "walk a mile in their shoes...." routine, so don't bother commenting that. I think this article addresses best my feelings on the whole Anthony situation.
"Caylee Anthony deserved so much more in her life here on this earth than she received. Caylee Anthony deserved a mother who cared more about her than of herself. Caylee Anthony deserved grandparents who cared more about finding her and bringing her home than they did protecting their daughter and their dysfunctional family. Caylee deserved a protecting uncle. Caylee deserved people who she was surrounded by to care enough to actually question where she might be rather than being caught up selfishly in their own lives. A two year old child is dependent on those around them and shame on them all for not caring enough to do so. In the end, it was her Father who cared most."
You can read the full article by clicking here.
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written by Indy Deb, Mon 22 Dec 2008 15:54:41 MST
Juanita~The writer was referring to God as Caylee's Father. For some that do believe (as I do) in an afterlife and in the idea that there is a higher power (as in God), this is the comfort we can find in situations like this.
written by talkstoangels, Mon 22 Dec 2008 15:55:10 MST
I think the article is referring to her Heavenly Father, not her biological one.
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:00:32 MST
"sure, assuming you believe in an afterlife and assuming that dead guy really was her father. "
Thanks Debbie downer....
Thanks Debbie downer....
written by YesBiscuit!, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:02:05 MST
Speaking only for myself, I will take comfort if and when Caylee's murderer (and anyone else involved) is brought to justice.
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:10:35 MST
That is a very sad article i have often wondered if only the real father could have been acknowledged but because of cindy it did not happen Did everyone see the ex fiance' on the today show he was litterly crying
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:13:11 MST
I think there are many different opinions on what happens after death and that's fine. We don't all hold to the same beliefs. I think for Christians out there like myself I have been thinking a lot about this case and my faith. As Christmas approaches I think about a little baby being born, entering into humanity to share in our trials, troubles and our joys. To show us how to live, to forgive and to sacrifice. I can't help but think of Christ's teaching about children, that they are greatest in the kingdom of God. We should treasure them. I think about Caylee being born into a family. To share with them in their joys and ultimately their troubles. She was a sacrifice to their dysfunction. It breaks my heart. My belief is that in the midst of the horror God never left her and didn't abandon her. Feel free to disagree.
written by NikkiinTx, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:14:07 MST
I'm one of the believers that kc wouldn't know who the father was if he came up and slapped her. It would be one of those Maury situations (ya know - 17 paternity tests and counting...) and if she really knew who the father was kc would have gone for money. JG is way to good a man for her. He loved that baby to death even though he knew she wasn't his.
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:15:57 MST
Her ex. Was Bait and Switched.
He was emotionally drained in that interview you could tell... Wondering in his heart if he is the father.
She was so loose there really is no telling who the real father is/was. My only thought is how could she drag him in to it as though he was the father have him craddle her to sleep and be there for her and then walk from him.
That was the first of her actions that was a huge mistake in the short life of Caylee. It just breaks my heart.
AS for the "Father" Being deceased... Im sorry i dont believe that. IF that was the case and i know i have heard others make reference to this. Why has no Next of kin to him come forward???
end result. She was sleeping around so much at that time she has NO clue who the true father is. Unless they get DNA From every guy she was claimed to have been with.
So sad!!!!...
I had a tough weekend trying to wrap my mind around all of this and friday's News Conference.
My heart just aches.
Happy monday to all.. hope you all had a good weekend and mostly have a blessed soon to be holiday week ahead.
He was emotionally drained in that interview you could tell... Wondering in his heart if he is the father.
She was so loose there really is no telling who the real father is/was. My only thought is how could she drag him in to it as though he was the father have him craddle her to sleep and be there for her and then walk from him.
That was the first of her actions that was a huge mistake in the short life of Caylee. It just breaks my heart.
AS for the "Father" Being deceased... Im sorry i dont believe that. IF that was the case and i know i have heard others make reference to this. Why has no Next of kin to him come forward???
end result. She was sleeping around so much at that time she has NO clue who the true father is. Unless they get DNA From every guy she was claimed to have been with.
So sad!!!!...
I had a tough weekend trying to wrap my mind around all of this and friday's News Conference.
My heart just aches.
Happy monday to all.. hope you all had a good weekend and mostly have a blessed soon to be holiday week ahead.
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:16:14 MST
the attorney is asking for the family to be able to grieve in peace what kind of peace was brought to caylee when she was dumped in that horrible location what a horrible place to rest tyour little girls soul the monster gave her the same type of burial as she her pet hampster PEACE!!!!! how dare they ask for PEACE!!!! the world cared more for caylees return than the whole anthony family together the media needs to find caseys uncle and interview him seems like he was the only one who really knew who casey was
written by Zabby, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:17:15 MST
Wow...that was a wonderful article. Thanks for sharing it.
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:20:36 MST
for a guest how can any one disagree with what you have written how beautifulled explained thankyou
for a guest good morning to you and merry christmas
for a guest good morning to you and merry christmas
written by Indy Deb, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:21:15 MST
nikkiinTx~I agree. If she knew who the father was, she would have taken him to the cleaners. And I don't believe it was the guy who died, as she would have pursued Social Security Death Benefits. She's vindictive but I don't know if she's vindictive enough to punish the actual father by eliminating him from Caylee's life, over obtaining the almighty dollar. Most likely, she had no clue where to start in finding out which one he was.
yourturntohelp~For all of us "Debs" out here....can you change that to Donna downer or Daphne downer or some other downer? LOL
yourturntohelp~For all of us "Debs" out here....can you change that to Donna downer or Daphne downer or some other downer? LOL
written by DramaQueen, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:21:40 MST
I really appreciated the link to that article. It was full of hope for Caylee and the future situation of those who have harmed her here on earth.
Thanks YourTurnToHelp.
It does seem bleak at times with all of defense and media spin but I do believe that Caylees voice will be heard as her heavenly father watches out for her.
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=zCdZwitrNoY
Thanks YourTurnToHelp.
It does seem bleak at times with all of defense and media spin but I do believe that Caylees voice will be heard as her heavenly father watches out for her.
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=zCdZwitrNoY
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:25:17 MST
I remember writing a post on the old blog a while back about the family of the now deceased guy that the Anthony's claim to be the father had hired an attorney and filed for dna samples.
Anyone know what ever became of that?
Anyone know what ever became of that?
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:29:00 MST
the anthony amily will never have peace they need to appreciate the time that the attorney is aking for them to mourn in peace because their life is only going to begin to unravel they are going to have to endure every day when the trial begins and listen and watch how horrible to have to look at your daughter again and again
written by DramaQueen, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:29:48 MST
Folks,
I posted the wrong link up there, I did not want to post the logancowboy, although it is sweet. I did want to post this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZHrbjhwKik
Sorry.
I posted the wrong link up there, I did not want to post the logancowboy, although it is sweet. I did want to post this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZHrbjhwKik
Sorry.
written by YesBiscuit!, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:30:57 MST
I got the feeling, and this may be wrong, that the family of the deceased young man who Casey claimed is the father dismissed the possibility that he was. I did not know they had hired an attorney and requested DNA.
written by Holden, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:31:28 MST
Very touching, wonderful article that about sums up the way I feel about all this. Caylee should have been enjoying her first real Christmas this year. Instead, she was tossed away in a plastic bag like so much garbage. The entire Anthony family should hang their heads in shame.
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:32:54 MST
ok drama queen you just start a beautiful day with tears thanks!!!! i got to get off this thread it has brought sadness this morning
written by jamiep, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:33:49 MST
i think we are going to start seeing alot of DNA requests in the near future
written by Tracy, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:34:07 MST
I think it was a beautifully written article and an accurate summation of my feelings as well.
written by Tracy, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:36:13 MST
Indy deb--thanks for a laugh out loud (literally) on this very very cold Monday morning.
written by Sherry C, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:41:23 MST
Yes, our Father cares more for all of us than anyone else He has blessed us with in our lives. We can't fathom it. Little Caylee was too good for her family. Her family was less than worthy of having her precious life among them. As for the friends not asking questions about Caylee's whereabouts, I can't find fault with them. They weren't parents. They were young. Caylee was the responsibility of Casey and they believed her concerning the nanny. When they did question Casey about Caylee, they took her word for it and probably felt it was none of their business. Sadly, this trgedy will make them more alert in the future. I saw Jesse Grund, with his lawyer on the Today Show this morning. He cried throughout the interview. He was the only one worthy of Caylee among all the family and friends in her life. What love he had for her!
written by N. C., Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:46:34 MST
Who knows what Caylee's life would have been like if she Father's hands, she will not suffer. She may have been spared a lot of pain and heartache. She was still innocent and vulnerable and would have been harmed so much by growing up in an environment that was that dysfunctional and crazy.
I am not saying that I am glad she is gone...NO,...my heart aches for her, and wishes she could still be here to have Santa come...but sometimes there is a blessing in all things in life.
I am not saying that I am glad she is gone...NO,...my heart aches for her, and wishes she could still be here to have Santa come...but sometimes there is a blessing in all things in life.
written by Indy Deb, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:47:37 MST
Casey's friends are most likely horrified at the thought that they may have been partying with "mom" while her baby was in the trunk of her car. I agree~they didn't know, they weren't parents and just assumed they were hanging around with someone like themselves (other than the fact that she had a child). I wonder sometimes how Tony L. must feel, knowing the possibility that some of his words or actions may have had anything to do with what happened. I don't believe it did. He just happened to be in Casey's life at the time. But he will most likely always have some guilt.
written by DramaQueen, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:56:47 MST
This is the link to the Today show interview with Jesse Grund for those who may be interested:
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/28347850/
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/28347850/
written by cindeefromwisconsin, Mon 22 Dec 2008 16:57:16 MST
I have a feeling the night Tony L told Crazy not to bring Caylee was because their might have been a party going on and it wasn't appropiate to have Caylee there.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:02:55 MST
well you can negate my comment, but the truth of the matter, all of you are looking for a way to help you feel better about this case - but who will help her feel better? the truth is, this is a TRAGEDY. A little girl is dead and she is NOT better off. Nobody saved her. I wish you could feel better, but she cannot. SHES DEAD! She can't feel at all. The only way people will get closure in this if if they take all of their sadness and turn it into energy that will help other abused children, or if they use their energy to voice their disdainn so loudly so that others are aware what happened was WRONG and hopefully it will save at least one child from being hit, kidnapped or killed.
im sorry if i offended anyone, my comment was not meant to offend, i am the most tolerant when it comes to other peoples beliefs, i just wish they were tolerant for mine.
im sorry if i offended anyone, my comment was not meant to offend, i am the most tolerant when it comes to other peoples beliefs, i just wish they were tolerant for mine.
written by Indy Deb, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:04:04 MST
cindee~I'm sure that was the case. He knew it wasn't an atmosphere for a child.
written by Krisam, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:08:38 MST
Juanita- I disagree, I have never read or blogged about this case in an attempt to make me feel better. I have felt from the start, as many others', that Caylee was deceased and likely at the hands by her mother. I do have hope that some good will come from this case, maybe new laws named in Caylee's honor. So, the truth of the matter, perhaps you are hoping to feel better, and believe all others carry the same feelings, but you are wrong. I will not negate your comment, it is on topic and your opinion which I will respect.
written by Indy Deb, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:09:25 MST
yourturntohelp~I'm still looking for info on Jose Ortiz' family. Here, so far:
An attorney representing the family of Jesus Ortiz said on Wednesday that as far as they know, Ortiz is not the father of missing toddler Caylee Anthony.
Ortiz, 20, died in a car crash in Orlando in May 2007. He attended Colonial High School with Caylee’s mother, Casey Anthony.
In recent weeks, rumors surfaced on the Internet that Ortiz could be the father of Caylee.
The attorney representing Ortiz’s parents said the family is close-knit and they claim they’ve never heard of or met Casey Anthony.
But they’re not completely dismissing the possibility that Ortiz could be the father.
“Miss Anthony never told the family Jesus was the father or that he might be the father. In fact, the family has never met her and does not know her,” attorney Bryan Crews said. “If the child is indeed their grandchild and alive, that is all they have left of their son, Jesus Ortiz. They would like to get to know the child if she is indeed still alive.”
Crews said as far as the family of Ortiz knows, Casey Anthony and their son never dated, and they have no knowledge of their son ever taking a paternity test.
The Orange County Sheriff’s Office requested a copy of a report from the Florida Highway Patrol on the crash in which Ortiz died.
Crews said investigators may be trying to obtain DNA evidence from the autopsy conducted on Ortiz.
Here is his myspace page: http://profile.myspace.com/ind...d=15753753
An attorney representing the family of Jesus Ortiz said on Wednesday that as far as they know, Ortiz is not the father of missing toddler Caylee Anthony.
Ortiz, 20, died in a car crash in Orlando in May 2007. He attended Colonial High School with Caylee’s mother, Casey Anthony.
In recent weeks, rumors surfaced on the Internet that Ortiz could be the father of Caylee.
The attorney representing Ortiz’s parents said the family is close-knit and they claim they’ve never heard of or met Casey Anthony.
But they’re not completely dismissing the possibility that Ortiz could be the father.
“Miss Anthony never told the family Jesus was the father or that he might be the father. In fact, the family has never met her and does not know her,” attorney Bryan Crews said. “If the child is indeed their grandchild and alive, that is all they have left of their son, Jesus Ortiz. They would like to get to know the child if she is indeed still alive.”
Crews said as far as the family of Ortiz knows, Casey Anthony and their son never dated, and they have no knowledge of their son ever taking a paternity test.
The Orange County Sheriff’s Office requested a copy of a report from the Florida Highway Patrol on the crash in which Ortiz died.
Crews said investigators may be trying to obtain DNA evidence from the autopsy conducted on Ortiz.
Here is his myspace page: http://profile.myspace.com/ind...d=15753753
written by Sherry C, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:10:20 MST
I'm pretty sure the friends are feeling awful about this. They're probably kicking themselves with the "what ifs". Even if they were aware and concerned for Caylee's well being there probably wouldn't have been anything done about it. This tragedy has changed their lives forever. When they have children they will think of Caylee. They will wonder, as all of us have, how can a mother do this to her own flesh and blood?
written by reform302, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:19:22 MST
truth thank you this article expresses exactly what i've been trying to say. how can i feel compassion for the anthony's when they demonstrated so little for caylee.
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:23:23 MST
Juanita,
Of course Caylee's death is a tragedy. No one disagrees with that. What I have to disagree with you about is your assertion that those who believe in God of Jesus are holding to those beliefs to make ourselves feel better about this horrible situation. Religion is not a panacea for all the troubles in the world. Rather, for many it is framework from which to understand events that defy our understanding. Jesus never instructed us not to grieve, in fact there are many instances where Jesus grieves over the death of people. It is proper to grieve, to be moved to action and to crave justice. But, for Christians we never lose hope that death is not the end and it is not in vain.
Of course Caylee's death is a tragedy. No one disagrees with that. What I have to disagree with you about is your assertion that those who believe in God of Jesus are holding to those beliefs to make ourselves feel better about this horrible situation. Religion is not a panacea for all the troubles in the world. Rather, for many it is framework from which to understand events that defy our understanding. Jesus never instructed us not to grieve, in fact there are many instances where Jesus grieves over the death of people. It is proper to grieve, to be moved to action and to crave justice. But, for Christians we never lose hope that death is not the end and it is not in vain.
written by JoyceEllaine, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:25:05 MST
I find it hard to believe the grand-parents didn't make any attempts to know where Caylee was , for that long of a time. If I hadn't seen or heard from a grand-child, I would have been on my daughters butt and would have wanted to know where she was. I would have made my daughter show me where she was and who she was with. Not wait 31 days.
written by Krisam, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:29:50 MST
Is there a way to know if a comment has been voted up or down? I voted up on the comment by Guest to Juanita, and don't see a vote.
written by Krisam, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:30:26 MST
Never mind, I see it now, but not from my vote???
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:36:23 MST
Juanita-
"The only way people will get closure in this if they take all of their sadness and turn it into energy that will help other abused children, or if they use their energy to voice their disdainn so loudly so that others are aware what happened was WRONG and hopefully it will save at least one child from being hit, kidnapped or killed."
Utterly fallacious, if you want to speak for yourself, so be it. But to say that "The ONLY way people will get closure" is dependent on an either/or premise, simply not the case.
For some, me being one, I find closure in my faith as well as by as you say "take all of their sadness and turn it into energy that will help other abused children", this website is evident of that.
In so far as you being so tolerant and people not being tolerant of your views. I can assure you, were I not tolerant of your views, you wouldn't be posting here.
"The only way people will get closure in this if they take all of their sadness and turn it into energy that will help other abused children, or if they use their energy to voice their disdainn so loudly so that others are aware what happened was WRONG and hopefully it will save at least one child from being hit, kidnapped or killed."
Utterly fallacious, if you want to speak for yourself, so be it. But to say that "The ONLY way people will get closure" is dependent on an either/or premise, simply not the case.
For some, me being one, I find closure in my faith as well as by as you say "take all of their sadness and turn it into energy that will help other abused children", this website is evident of that.
In so far as you being so tolerant and people not being tolerant of your views. I can assure you, were I not tolerant of your views, you wouldn't be posting here.
written by Sherry C, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:36:49 MST
Juanita, where was God or Jesus in a whole host of tragedies! He is with us through them. To prevent cruelties, such as what has happened to Caylee, would mean that God would have to create us as robots. There's no genuine love expressed in that. I wouldn't want to know why God does what He does at times. He would be too small to be God then. I do know that justice comes to, and for, all of us when all is said and done. God never promised us this life would be fair, but He did promise to be with us when it wasn't.
written by Zenga, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:40:18 MST
YourTurn: Thanks so much for posting the link to this article. It is a wonderful point of view from someone who obviously genuinely cared about Caylee.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:41:00 MST
Thank you Krisam very much. Im not asking anyone to take sides with me, i'm not trying to argue with anyone specifically, i'm only expressing my own opinion. You can agree or disagree with me, but i dont like it when people negate me, so i got upset and responded. I'm not sorry that i got upset. I dont believe in an afterlife, and i dont believe her heavenly father or biological father was there (in the ether?) to save her. Nobody saved Caylee. It wont make me feel better to think that anyone (or anything) did save her. The only thing anyone can do now is to make an effort to prevent this from happening again. That was my only point. Kudos to you who believe in God who are brave enough to answer my question.
written by reform302, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:47:24 MST
juanita, i am glad your not afraid to speak up because you are caylee's voice, just as we all are. this nation is caylee's voice. we cannot change what happened, but we can try to act and protect those who can not protect themselves. i have anger towards all of anthony's. i try to understand because i don't get angry very often. i would like to turn this into something positive. maybe that's what this site is all about banding together to change the laws that fail to protect all our children. caylee can't speak but we you and i can speak for her. hugs mickey
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:48:39 MST
your turn, yes you are right, in all points. lets save the bannings for the real trolls.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 17:52:15 MST
i cant edit my post so i feel like an idiot posting 3 times in a row.
sorry i was careless to say "you all" that was a mistake on my part, i usually try to avoid such generalizations.
sorry i was careless to say "you all" that was a mistake on my part, i usually try to avoid such generalizations.
written by over60, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:13:14 MST
written by a guest stated...AS for the "Father" Being deceased... Im sorry i dont believe that. IF that was the case and i know i have heard others make reference to this. Why has no Next of kin to him come forward???
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It is my understanding that Cindy referred to the father as being named Eric. Didn't Cindy tell the officers when they were questioning her that he had died in a car accident but KC had told her that she was still in touch with his widow?
Please feel free to correct me if I am WRONG..
Personally, I don't believe KC knew who the father was either.. And I don't believe she told Cindy the truth about the father being dead... Seems IF KC's lips are moving, you can count on what she says as being a LIE.
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It is my understanding that Cindy referred to the father as being named Eric. Didn't Cindy tell the officers when they were questioning her that he had died in a car accident but KC had told her that she was still in touch with his widow?
Please feel free to correct me if I am WRONG..
Personally, I don't believe KC knew who the father was either.. And I don't believe she told Cindy the truth about the father being dead... Seems IF KC's lips are moving, you can count on what she says as being a LIE.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:18:03 MST
Ok....This blog is a free exchange of opinions and ideas..........sorta.
written by reform302, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:23:32 MST
paul i do believe this site is for everyone, may not always agree but everyone is certainly entitled. i'm happy as long as we don't trash each other
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:26:24 MST
yea paul, its a tiptoe, as i've already learned
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:26:56 MST
As i mentioned above. I am with you on those thoughts over 60.
Amazing to think she wouldnt at some point think to find the father of Caylee for the sake of Caylee to know of that person.
Amazing to think she wouldnt at some point think to find the father of Caylee for the sake of Caylee to know of that person.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:27:31 MST
The low rated comment thing is kinda like communism.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:31:37 MST
ohhh neet! someone keeps negating me no matter what i say! ("thank you mikey) i have a minus button attacker! HAYAH! 
written by talkstoangels, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:32:38 MST
I think comments are getting voted down, because we are not here to bash religion, or to come off in a way that looks like we are being negative to the other posters as a whole.
written by Sherry C, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:32:41 MST
PaulMc, it wasn't God who killed her, it was her mother. What God allows is His business but He does redeem such awful tragedies that humans inflict on one another. If Casey had truly known and believed in God, she would not have done this. She would have cherished Caylee as His gift to her.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:36:02 MST
Sherry.............I never said god killed her. We all know who killed her. I was merely expressing an opposing idea. I'm not bashing anyone and I'm not here to be preached to.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:37:31 MST
Juanita....I gave you a +1 for being able to think on your own.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:38:41 MST
Thank you paul 
and i will continue to. Caylee needs a voice, she no longer has one. (thank you mikey again)
and i will continue to. Caylee needs a voice, she no longer has one. (thank you mikey again) 
written by Kat, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:38:47 MST
My thoughts: This is a private site, kindly hosted and moderated by a private individual. What he says goes. It's not a "free speech" zone. We are his guests.
Just as when you step into somebody's living room for the first time, it's wise, I think, to get an idea of the environment you're in before jumping in with both feet. If you hang around a bit, you get an idea of the mindset of our host, and of the "culture" of the forum he hosts here.
Sure, most opinions are welcome. And clean, honest debate is encouraged. But it's kind of like - if you enter my living room where I've gathered with some neighbors to visit, and you're new to us, and you cut the cheese, the host may not put you out, but NOBODY will enjoy the stink
HOWEVER if you've been hanging out with us and gotten to know us and are more familiar, and you cut the cheese, you'd probably just be the "butt" of some good laughs!
That said, my thoughts on any kind of religious aspect to this tragedy are probably closer to Juanita's than to YourTurn's.
Just as when you step into somebody's living room for the first time, it's wise, I think, to get an idea of the environment you're in before jumping in with both feet. If you hang around a bit, you get an idea of the mindset of our host, and of the "culture" of the forum he hosts here.
Sure, most opinions are welcome. And clean, honest debate is encouraged. But it's kind of like - if you enter my living room where I've gathered with some neighbors to visit, and you're new to us, and you cut the cheese, the host may not put you out, but NOBODY will enjoy the stink
HOWEVER if you've been hanging out with us and gotten to know us and are more familiar, and you cut the cheese, you'd probably just be the "butt" of some good laughs! That said, my thoughts on any kind of religious aspect to this tragedy are probably closer to Juanita's than to YourTurn's.
written by momof4, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:39:06 MST
Well, I have to say that I'm not a 100% believer in god myself...religion is just to confusing for my mind. But...I would never ever hurt one of my children, even though I'm not a true 100% believer in God above.
Not bashing religon, just saying that it doesn't take someone truly believing in God to cherish their children. I do cherish every moment...even the hard times with my children, as my precious children....not a gift from God per say.
I myself have questioned if God is such an all giving wonderful God....then why does he let such horrible things happen to the defensless people in the world.
Not bashing religon, just saying that it doesn't take someone truly believing in God to cherish their children. I do cherish every moment...even the hard times with my children, as my precious children....not a gift from God per say.
I myself have questioned if God is such an all giving wonderful God....then why does he let such horrible things happen to the defensless people in the world.
written by reform302, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:39:25 MST
juanita and paul
if we were all the same what a boring world this would be. being different is what keeps things interesting.
if we were all the same what a boring world this would be. being different is what keeps things interesting.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:41:39 MST
This is not a private site. I found it by googling Caylee Anthony.
Kat, I would never fart in your living room.
Kat, I would never fart in your living room.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:42:46 MST
and again, i say kudos to those who believe in God who are brave enough to defend their views (without preaching)
some of you beleive God was there, and some of us don't believe anyone was there. her mother wasnt there, her grandmother wasnt there, her grandfather wasnt there, lee wasnt there, tony wasnt there... cops werent there.. i can go on and on and on....
wait.. the hurricane was there and so was the snake. well you can say the snake was the devil. i say it was just a snake and the cop was a pu**y.
some of you beleive God was there, and some of us don't believe anyone was there. her mother wasnt there, her grandmother wasnt there, her grandfather wasnt there, lee wasnt there, tony wasnt there... cops werent there.. i can go on and on and on....
wait.. the hurricane was there and so was the snake. well you can say the snake was the devil. i say it was just a snake and the cop was a pu**y.
written by Kat, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:43:12 MST
It IS a private site. It's open to whomever the host chooses to allow. Currently, he's very liberal with who gets in. But that is his choice. He does not have to approve every person who signs up. He might now, but he doesn't have to. I'm just sayin....
written by Kat, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:43:52 MST
And thank you for choosing to not fart in my living room!
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:44:23 MST
the low rating system is more of a pure democracy than a communism.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:45:52 MST
Reform.....I like the way you think. I am not a sheeple.
written by Kat, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:46:55 MST
Amen, YourTurn! The purest form of democracy. Thankfully our country doesn't run by "pure democracy" or we might still have slavery, and women wouldn't be allowed to vote, and and and...
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:47:45 MST
Giving an opposing point of view is not bashing people.
written by reform302, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:48:38 MST
paul my daddy always told me do not debate politics or religion, it's a no win situation.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:51:14 MST
Kat, i know that. you will never hear me claim my free speech on any blog.
written by Kat, Mon 22 Dec 2008 18:54:05 MST
In response to the article YourTurn posted, I thought it was a very heartfelt and thought provoking article. It is so true that those around her really let her down. So sad.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:00:39 MST
written by YourTurnToHelp, 2008-12-22 11:44:23
the low rating system is more of a pure democracy than a communism.
It's really more of a popularity contest.
I am a very poor debater. I usually just let people believe they are right. I'm happy and they're happy.
Although, I definitely believe in good spelling and proper punctuation.
the low rating system is more of a pure democracy than a communism.
It's really more of a popularity contest.
I am a very poor debater. I usually just let people believe they are right. I'm happy and they're happy.
Although, I definitely believe in good spelling and proper punctuation.
written by Sherry C, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:00:43 MST
paul and juanita, I personally didn't see anything wrong with your comments. I'm thinking like you, paul, its kinda like communism. People firm in their faith need not cause others comments to collapse just because they believe or disbelieve differently. You both made very valid points about God and this tragedy that He didn't prevent. I once believed the same way! If we vote a plus, will the comments come back?
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:02:34 MST
Opposing views bother me not at all. I quite like them actually. They make me think, read, learn, investigate.
I often find people confusing lack of tact, with opposing views.
There's a difference.
I often find people confusing lack of tact, with opposing views.
There's a difference.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:08:47 MST
Paul NO, i dont belive in puntuation NO! (negates you) i definitely dont belive in capitalization, especially when i write "i". its unhealthy unnecessary move for my thumb. and god gave me this thumb to pipette with.
i believe in flying spaghetti monsters.
nah dont vote me up, please keep my comment collapsed, if it upsets peeps then they dont need to be reading it.
i believe in flying spaghetti monsters.
nah dont vote me up, please keep my comment collapsed, if it upsets peeps then they dont need to be reading it.
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:17:00 MST
I have never claimed to be the most tactful person around. I am a charm school drop-out.
I do enjoy this site and the people on it. I think it is very informative and well put together.
My thanks to your turn for publishing it. Good job.
I do enjoy this site and the people on it. I think it is very informative and well put together.
My thanks to your turn for publishing it. Good job.
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:17:46 MST
You know it's sad. I have a 3 year old and a 4 year old...I had my 3 year old when I was 14, my 4 year old is my step-son. But my point is is that when I was 14 I was a better mother than most people out there. I hope & pray that the mother get the death penalty and I hope her family rots in Hell. Who couldn't care for a baby? They don't ask to be brought into this world and if you don't want them then keep your legs closed or use a condom or birth control.
Rachelle Johnson
Rachelle Johnson
written by YourTurnToHelp, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:19:04 MST
"charm school drop-out. "
lol.
Thanks for joining us Paul
lol.
Thanks for joining us Paul
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:37:51 MST
you know i was just kidding about the punctuation paul right? punctuation is a good thing i think yes the world needs more of it
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:38:27 MST
ohhh how neet, im a guest! forgot to login - juanita
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:39:26 MST
That's an absurd article. Her grandparents loved her very much.
written by momof4, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:47:02 MST
They may have loved her very much....but not enough to make their F'd up daughter tell the truth and be accountable for her actions. Not enough to make sure that her little body wasn't out there in the swamps in trash bags being gnawed on by insects and animals. Not enough to tell the truth & make it easier for the LE to find her.
That's where everyone gets so upset with the grandparents.
I don't know how for sure I'd react in this situation, but one thing I do know....I would never sacrifice my grandchild for my adult childs happiness or well being. Even more so....I wouldn't sacrifice any child let alone my own blood for any adults happiness or well being. My child would be in prison by now....I know for a fact!!
I don't know how I'd grieve, or even breathe if I were in their shoes though!!
That's where everyone gets so upset with the grandparents.
I don't know how for sure I'd react in this situation, but one thing I do know....I would never sacrifice my grandchild for my adult childs happiness or well being. Even more so....I wouldn't sacrifice any child let alone my own blood for any adults happiness or well being. My child would be in prison by now....I know for a fact!!
I don't know how I'd grieve, or even breathe if I were in their shoes though!!
written by PaulMc, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:50:26 MST
Juanita.......I knew that was you. I recognized your blatant disregard for capitalization.
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:54:16 MST
as a grandmother of a beautiful 2 yr old girl I am torn about how they must feel. I have searched my soul and honestly dont know what I would have done in their position. Would like to think I would kick the truth out of my son but if they dont want to tell they arent going to. My heart goes out to everyone who was affected by this awful tragedy. I pray the rest of our angels are a bit safer knowing we will be more watchful.
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 19:57:34 MST
by the way I never had time to watch the news and want to thank everyone for their help in knowing what was on it. This replaced news channels for me.
written by Juanita, Mon 22 Dec 2008 20:07:53 MST
ahhh duh, that makes sense now Paul, and i just remembered, i'm quite a ditz. that might explain why i offend people without even trying. peeps shouldnt give me too much credit, believe me, its not calculated. except the blatant disregard for caps, yes thats quite calculated. i even backspace and correct it. good job in making people happy tho.
anyhoo to get back on topic so they dont crash me out of existence .... on the today show this morning there was an interview with a guy named Roy Black being interviewed (i have no video link sorry) but anyway, he said the defense has a very tough case to win, the evidence we have all discussed is stacked against her, and the defense's best bet is to get casey on the stand and she has to describe this as accidental, so she would basically plea for involuntary manslaughter instead of premeditated murder I. he says they will have a hard time proving premeditation. hes seems to know what hes talking about.
its my day off from work can you tell?
good job in making people happy tho. anyhoo to get back on topic so they dont crash me out of existence
.... on the today show this morning there was an interview with a guy named Roy Black being interviewed (i have no video link sorry) but anyway, he said the defense has a very tough case to win, the evidence we have all discussed is stacked against her, and the defense's best bet is to get casey on the stand and she has to describe this as accidental, so she would basically plea for involuntary manslaughter instead of premeditated murder I. he says they will have a hard time proving premeditation. hes seems to know what hes talking about. its my day off from work can you tell?
written by a guest, Mon 22 Dec 2008 22:22:57 MST
Ah gees, I am in tears just reading the snip-its! There is no way I can read the whole article today, maybe another day.
I'll say a little prayer for "Caylee" on Wednesday, as I get to hold my 2yr old grand-daughter, "Haley."
Merry Christmas all....hold your children tight to you and tell them you love them.
I'll say a little prayer for "Caylee" on Wednesday, as I get to hold my 2yr old grand-daughter, "Haley."
Merry Christmas all....hold your children tight to you and tell them you love them.
written by a guest, Tue 23 Dec 2008 01:17:37 MST
Thank you for letting me on. I have been reading the blogs but have not commented. I have three grandchildren, if one of them lived with me I would want phone numbers of where they were and no child of mine would take my grandchild away for a month. I would hunt them down after one day. I do not understand C&G letting her go for a month-that child lived with them.And they didn,t know the nanny??? They didn't have a number??? Or even meet her??? Something is very wrong. My belief is that she is with God and God loves us all even though I'm sure He shakes HIs Head at all of us and wonders why we all are so stupid. (free will,we all have it- He just cleans up our messes) Merry Christmas!
written by terridiane, Tue 23 Dec 2008 03:30:19 MST
That was very nicely Written Caylee is definitely in a better place......Amen
written by mizztahoe, Tue 23 Dec 2008 05:04:02 MST
BTW hello to ev1 im new to this site and absolutly love it!!!!!! My daughter's name was Kaylee Marie as well but she passed 15 yrs ago of SIDS she was 29 days old 
I have one child now kyle hes 18 notice i spelled his sisters name simaler to his
I have one child now kyle hes 18 notice i spelled his sisters name simaler to his
written by a guest, Tue 23 Dec 2008 07:09:11 MST
It would have been a much better read without all the Jesus crap...
written by a guest, Tue 23 Dec 2008 12:06:36 MST
How many lives does Casey Anthony, total white trash, have to ruin? Her parents, friends, boyfriends, grandparents, ex-fiance and his family, neighbors, brother, his girlfriend, Zenieda-Gonzalas, it goes on and on...people have lost their jobs because of this pig...if I sound mad, it's because I am.
written by a guest, Tue 23 Dec 2008 12:11:38 MST
Adding to my last blog, not to mention a little girl who will never go to the prom, get married, or have babies of her own..that pig will go to prison, and then she has hell to look forward to, on a happier note...Casey, dear, they don't like child killers in prison...lie your way out of that one!
written by a guest, Tue 23 Dec 2008 16:31:07 MST
Tnhey need to remove all the pictures of Casey and Caylle from her myspace , it is an added insult injury to Caylee. I can't stop crying. I can;t understand why she did this to that little girl.. WHY CASEY? I do not wish bad on anyone but I wish you pain unlike anything on the face of this earth. I hope you cry endlessly and hurt from your actions. How can a mother do this to her own child?
Take those pictures off the site! She wasn ot a good mom , she gace birth but she was not a mom!
RIP Baby Caylee . the world loves you more and will never forget you!
Take those pictures off the site! She wasn ot a good mom , she gace birth but she was not a mom!
RIP Baby Caylee . the world loves you more and will never forget you!
written by a guest, Fri 26 Dec 2008 14:22:03 MST
my mother passed away last year right after christmas. but i can tell you had i done something like what casey anthony did she would not have been by my side. she would have done everything to see someone pay for what happend to her grandchild. even if it was her own daughter. i do not understan how they can support her. but at the same time my mother would have been worried long before a whole month went by of not knowing where her grandchild was. i don't know how all grandparents feel. my mother loved my kids more than she did me and that wasn't such a bad thing. too bad the anthony's don't feel that way.
written by a guest, Sat 27 Dec 2008 12:20:47 MST
i cant fuckin believe that cold hearted bitch casey would kill her own flesh and blood so she can go out and get fucked like a piece of loose meat she is, sorry for the harsh words but thats how i feel. i am so upset about the case i wish i can kill her myself. honest to god. had i known caylee was in danger, i would have been glad to adopt her. i wish i could have saved her. rip caylee i will miss you and will never forget your sweet face!
written by a guest, Sat 27 Dec 2008 12:24:59 MST
FUCK CASEY THAT BITCH IS GONNA DIE A HORRIBLE DEATH. AT LEAST I HOPE. FUCK ALL YOU PSYCHO BABY KILLERS OUT THERE. I HOPE YOU KILL YOURSELF. AND ANOTHER THING, CASEYS PARENTS ARE FUCKN STUPID FOR TRYING TO HAVE FAITH IN CASEY MEANING SHE DIDNT MURDER HER CHILD.PLEASE. THAT WHOLE FAMILY IS SO FUCKED UP THERE THE REASON WHY CAYLEE IS DEAD.
written by a guest, Tue 30 Dec 2008 04:48:25 MST
JUANITA BOSMENY FROM COCOA,FL
YES!!!!!!!!YES!!!!!!!!PRECIOUS CAYLEE IS AT HOME NOW.THANK YOU GOD FOR BRING HER OUT OF THE WOODS AND TAKING HER HOME TO LIVE WITH YOU SO SHE WILL WANT FOR ANYTHING.NOW SHE IS A BEATUIFUL ANGEL SINING WITHALL THE OTHER ANGELS.THANK YOU METER READER FOR FINDING CAYLEES REMAINS. I BELIVE THAH GOD SENT THAT METER READER THERE THAT DAY. GOD KNOWS BEST AND HE DIDN'T WANT PRECIOUS CAYLEE OUT THERE IN THEM WOODS ANY LONGER. OUR PRECIOUS CAYLEE YOU CAN REST IN PEACE NOW. YOU ARE LOVED BY LOTS OF PEOPLE.I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU.
NITA
YES!!!!!!!!YES!!!!!!!!PRECIOUS CAYLEE IS AT HOME NOW.THANK YOU GOD FOR BRING HER OUT OF THE WOODS AND TAKING HER HOME TO LIVE WITH YOU SO SHE WILL WANT FOR ANYTHING.NOW SHE IS A BEATUIFUL ANGEL SINING WITHALL THE OTHER ANGELS.THANK YOU METER READER FOR FINDING CAYLEES REMAINS. I BELIVE THAH GOD SENT THAT METER READER THERE THAT DAY. GOD KNOWS BEST AND HE DIDN'T WANT PRECIOUS CAYLEE OUT THERE IN THEM WOODS ANY LONGER. OUR PRECIOUS CAYLEE YOU CAN REST IN PEACE NOW. YOU ARE LOVED BY LOTS OF PEOPLE.I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU.
NITA
written by a guest, Sun 04 Jan 2009 08:48:57 MST
IMO Baez will ask for more time {perhaps to continue his relationship with Casey...sad for his wife...he should be disbarred for his inappropriate touching...sri I think Casey is very unattractive!}
Bless the memory of Caylee
Bless the memory of Caylee
written by a guest, Tue 06 Jan 2009 17:31:21 MST
I think that the grandparents know what happened and knew all along. They stopped talking to the press when "grandma" realized that if she pushed the smelly car issue she would only hang her daughter! I believe that "grandpa" who was once a cop, told his daughter to just keep her mouth shut and let the police take the fall for being inept at their jobs. The police are only as good as what they are given to work with and they can make mistakes. I don't believe either one is true in this case, but repeatedly the Anthony's have stated and made comments about the stupidity of the police and investigation. I think "pappy" told his "little girl" when she was at home for that short time to just keep her mouth shut and see what happens. If their defense team is as good as the press says they are, we may have another O.J. situation on our hands. If anyone out there saw anything they need to come forward and help put this baby killer where she belongs. Use your imagination, but I think they need a new statistic in Florida regarding how many women have received the death penalty!
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